Part of Communication (Levels 1 and 2)Learn the basics
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Speaker 1: We need to change how we speak depending on the situation and who we're speaking to.
When we don't know people very well we need to use more formal language.
Speaker 2: (TO OTHER PEOPLE) Helen Thompson?
Doctor Campbell is still with another patient.
She鈥檒l be with you as soon as she possibly can.
Speaker 1: (TO AUDIENCE) I鈥檓 a patient here and we don鈥檛 know each other so the receptionist talks to me in a formal way.
(TO OTHER PEOPLE) Thank you. I appreciate you letting me know.
(TO AUDIENCE) And I need to respond in a similar manner.
But with people you know well, you can be more informal.
(PHONE RINGS) My best friend.
Speaker 3: (ON PHONE) Where are you?
I鈥檓 sitting here all on my own! Are we still on for lunch?
Speaker 1: (TO AUDIENCE) This gives me the go-ahead to be more informal.
Chatty. And the language I use to apologise can be more informal too.
(TO PERSON ON PHONE) Yeah, soz, I鈥檓 stuck at the doctor鈥檚.
Speaker 4: Helen Thompson?
Speaker 1: (TO PERSON ON PHONE) I鈥檒l see you tomorrow, right?
Speaker 4: I鈥檇 rather see you now.
(SPEAKER 1 INDICATES PHONE)
Speaker 1: Sorry.
Speaker 4: Please, follow me.
Test your knowledge with this activity.
Speaker: Every day we鈥檙e all reading lots of words all around us.
And everything we read is using a different kind of language.
(SPEAKER SEES NOTICE IN SHOP WINDOW)
Some language is formal. And some language is informal.
(SPEAKER SEES CHALK BOARD OUTSIDE CAFE)
This leaflet about opening a bank account uses formal language and a polite tone.
(PHONE BEEPS) This email is inviting me to a job interview, so it is structured and has perfect spelling.
And because the company doesn鈥檛 know me, the writer uses formal language.
So, for example, they don鈥檛 abbreviate words or use contractions.
'We would like to invite you,' they say. Rather than 'we鈥檇 like'.
(PHONE BEEPS) But when we know people well, we use informal language like this: 'Hiya, want to hang out tonite?' which is far more chatty.
We use abbreviations, contractions, slang. When we鈥檙e sending texts, we sometimes even misspell things like tonight or use numbers instead of letters.
Understanding the difference between informal and formal language is not just about knowing which language to use, it鈥檚 also about choosing the right language in a situation.
And we can learn a lot just by reading, listening and noticing the language all around us, every day.
Speaker: Dear Mr Webber, I saw your advertisement for the post of sports assistant.
I feel I鈥檓 well qualified for the role and would like to ask you鈥
(PHONE VIBRATES) Hiya, you free tonight?
To be honest, I鈥檓 really鈥 Tbh I鈥檓 super busy.
(TO AUDIENCE) Here I鈥檓 writing an email applying for a job so I鈥檓 using formal, polite language.
(PHONE VIBRATES) (TO THEMSELVES) No worries.
(TO AUDIENCE) Over here I鈥檓 texting, so I can be chatty, because I don鈥檛 want to be formal with my friends.
I can use abbreviations like 'def' instead of 'definitely' and contractions like 'don鈥檛', the shortening of 'do not'.
(TO THEMSELVES) OK so鈥 'Dear sir/madam' needs a 'Yours faithfully', so 'Dear Mr Webber' needs 'Yours sincerely'. Oops, (TO AUDIENCE) wrong message.
I鈥檓 still being me in both these messages but I鈥檓 just adapting my style and choice of words.
OK, this is ready to go.
(TO THEMSELVES) LOL. (TO AUDIENCE) Almost did it again.
This is why, whether you鈥檙e being informal or formal, re-reading before you hit send is so important.
So is just writing one thing at a time.
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Reading tips, the purpose of texts and spotting mistakes
Finding the right information and planning how to respond
Where to use capital letters, adjectives and conjunctions
How to write clear and interesting sentences