Healthy ways to manage emotional eating
Boredom, stress, anxiety and tiredness are some of we eat 鈥渓ess healthily than usual鈥 during lockdown, according to a YouGov survey for the British Nutritition Foundation (BNF). But why do these feelings influence what we eat and are there better ways to regulate them?
Causes of emotional eating
Emotional eating can be driven by our survival instincts. 鈥淥ur bodies don鈥檛 recognise the difference between the stress of a lion chasing us and the stress of deadlines at work鈥, says medical doctor Aishah Muhammad. Dietitian Sophie Medlin explains, 鈥渨hen you鈥檙e stressed, you crave food that is easy to digest and releases energy quickly to help you fight or run away 鈥 sugar and carbohydrates鈥.
Almost two-thirds of Brits in the BNF survey say boredom is the main cause of their unhealthy lockdown eating. boredom with eating for escapism, but there鈥檚 good news: it also associates it with increased consumption of healthy food, so long the food is 鈥渆xciting鈥.
When we鈥檙e sleep deprived, shows we may eat almost 400 calories per day more than when we sleep well, because we 鈥渄raw on quick energy sources to keep us awake, usually carbohydrates鈥. 鈥淏eing sleepy also increases hunger hormones鈥, says Medlin.
When we eat, we produce dopamine, the brain chemical responsible for reward and pleasure feelings. , particularly those high in fat and sugar, stimulate dopamine production more than healthier options. This can lead to the 鈥渄ietary pleasure trap鈥, says Dr Douglas Lisle, psychologist and author of The Pleasure Trap: Mastering the Hidden Force that Undermines Health and Happiness. Your instincts tell 鈥測ou to seek the most pleasure for the least pain and the least effort鈥, he explains, but the more you trigger the pleasure receptors in your brain, the less impact it will have.
The 3Fs to overcome emotional eating
Dr Rangan Chatterjee, author of Feel Great Lose Weight and The Stress Solution, encourages us to focus on what we eat as well as whether we eat in his 鈥3 Fs鈥 to overcome emotional eating. The 3F technique is to:
Feel: When hungry, take a pause and ask yourself if you鈥檙e bored, lonely or stressed. If you鈥檙e hungry, eat.
Feed: Consider how what you choose to eat feeds the feeling you identified in the first F. How does eating it make you feel 鈥 better, worse or no change?
Find: Can you find a non-food behaviour to deal with the emotion instead? It could be exercise, a yoga practice, a long bath, sleeping, calling a friend, or using to reduce anxiety and stress.
There may be situations where food makes you feel better. Dinner and a movie or baking can be positive emotional experiences, says nutritionist Rachael Hartley. By eating with mindfulness and intention, 鈥測ou鈥檙e much more likely to savour your food and the experience鈥, as opposed to impulsively eating emotionally, she says. What鈥檚 more, emotional eating doesn鈥檛 have to mean .
However, 鈥渇ood rarely fixes problems and it can鈥檛 help you process difficult things, so we have to look beyond food as a way of coping with challenges鈥, she continues. Eating 鈥渟hould not be the only coping mechanism in your toolkit鈥.
Be kind to yourself
If you find yourself eating emotionally and you don鈥檛 feel able to control it, remember these are not normal times and you might not want to eat in your normal way. 鈥淩ight now, that鈥檚 ok鈥, says dietitian Priya Tew. 鈥淭his is a time to look after yourself and those around you, to nourish your body the best way you can and find pleasure where you can too. Whilst a balanced diet is always the aim, it is okay to eat differently right now with no guilt, anxiety or fear. This is especially thinking about those of you who struggle with disordered eating thoughts or are in recovery from an eating disorder. Keep being kind to yourself.鈥