My family and I moved to
the North East form the Kent/London area in 1996. We moved to the Consett area
in County Durham. Each one of my family have experienced verbal abuse from people
in the area and even physical attacks on one of them. The verbal attacks consist
of "Cockney Cxxxx" and "Fxxxx off back to where you belong."
This has been so called adults shouting this at children. We know that in an area
as this full acceptance will never happen. On what I have described one
would conclude that this is a case of racism, but here's the problem, my family
and I are white and born and bred in this country. The only thing that makes us
different to the people giving the abuse is our accents. As our skin is white
it can't be racial - if we had coloured skin or were travellers it would be racial.
Abuse and discrimination has the same effect no matter what colour you are. There
are a quite large amount of people in the North East, and not just Consett, who
are be definition "Racists" and you don't have to be coloured of from
another country of culture to be on the receiving end. B.N. Last
night I sat and watched in disgust the arrogance of this woman's view about Newcastle
not bringing a place to bring up her child.
I am interested in why she
was allowed in my view to give a one-sided view and never fully investigated her
rash comments. I am not racist, I work with Hindis, Sheik's, and Muslims and I
am a white Christian British citizen and have lived and grew up in Newcastle for
over 30 years when the family came back after my father served in the forces.
I went to school with Asians and learnt about different cultures, yes over
the years I have seen bullying but that was done by both whites and Asians.
Now I am awaiting the arrival of my second child, why is this relevant basically
because my child will of mixed heritage, my child's father is a lovely family
orientated person and is MUSLIM and from AFGHANISTAN, he respects my Christian
faith and celebrated Christmas with my family and is looking forward to the baby's
birth.
We have discussed how we are going to educate our child regarding
religion and his cultural heritage. We have decided that he is to learn both faiths
and when he is old enough he will have a choice, I accept that there will be problems
but we are educated and open minded and will deal with any problems in a responsible
way. Our child will be loved for who he is and not what religion, colour or creed
he is.
People like the lady in last night's broadcast are the people who
create more problems with in our mixed communities than any rational, normal Geordie
does.
Please don't think that all people in Newcastle are the same WE
ARE NOT. This report was so one sided that I feel obliged to have my say. Dawn
Anderson This one is a bit of a dilemma. Not being native to Newcastle
I believe that anyone coming to the city will be genuinely taken aback by the
warmth and humour of most people. However, being dark skinned it is clear that
there is still a disturbing minority of extremely ignorant and stupid people living
here. Whilst to a certain extent it seems inevitable that every area will have
such populations, what I do often find disheartening is that a lot of people in
the area attempt to minimise racism and even imply that it is somehow the fault
of the victim. Racism is NEVER acceptable, and if the indigenous folk realised
this we could rid ourselves of the disease quicker. Mobin I could
not believe the arrogance of this lady's view to Newcastle not being a place to
bring up her child because of her ethic background. Everywhere you live and go
you have a degree of racism and it cuts both ways, what I could not believe was
that she focused mainly on what a minority of Asian people have encountered and
not what everyday Geordies really think.
What upset me most was that she
centred in on the bad things and never really looked at schools and community
projects that are bringing all ethic minorities together in a mutual understanding
of the cultural difference with in the UK today.
My daughter is in a relationship
with an Afghan Muslim and he is a lovely man who respects her religion and her
cultural background and she in return is the same with him, during eid she fasted
with him and she has always supported him and he too celebrates with her on our
Christian holidays. They have a rich cultural heritage between them and yes sometime
they do get nasty comments but these people are poorly educated or just plain
bigots. They never ever bring race, religion or cultural differences into their
relationship and are like any normal couple...
Newcastle is one of the
friendly places to live, yes we have problems but name me a big city that does
not.
Her view was biased and offensive and what does she know since she
admitted living in London and not knowing the changes that the city has under
gone, what does she know. E. Anderson I would like to point out
that Narinder's family were not the only Asian family living in West Moor 20 years
ago. My Grandma Joan Peppiatt, who was born in Burma and was of Burmese
origin (now called Myanmar), lived on West Moor Drive in West Moor for over 25
years (from 1977ish) until her death. She moved to England with my granddad
Neville Peppiatt (born and bred in Newcastle), during the Second World War. As
far as I'm aware she did not suffer any racial abuse, and was seen as more of
a 'china doll' figure due to her beautiful features. West Moor therefore,
in my eyes, is not and has not been a place of any racism. Louise Peppiatt I
am writing to express my extreme disappointment with tonight's programme. The
views expressed by host Narinder upset and offended my family greatly. As a resident
of the West Moor area and an ex-pupil of Narinder's school I strongly disagree
with claims that racist bullying is rife in the North-East. Whilst attending
the school, several of my friends were from ethnic minority groups and I have
never heard any of them complain about racist comments. Narinder's own family
are key in the community and are held in high regard by the residents...
While
I agree that there will always be the minority of small minded bigots throughout
the country, including Tyneside, I strongly feel that the majority of Geordies
accept you for the person you are not the colour you are... Lauren Laydon
and the Laydon family
Hi Inside Out, just watched your programme with
interest and concern. My name is Paula Archer and I am Dept. Manager at Stepney
Bank Stables in Byker. We have been running a course for school children in Newcastle
called 'Horses know no colour'. This very successful idea brought together
our local Police force and children from schools where racism had been a growing
concern mainly due to the increase of asylum seekers in the community. We used
our horses to work with young people to teach then how to communicate. Riding
allowed all the children to have a 'shared experience' that they could chatter
about. It is an amazingly successful project that received commendation from The
Chief Constable of Northumbria Police. None of the children would mix at
all when they entered the stables in fact the atmosphere would be very tense.
It was fantastic to see the change as they left the stables all excited and friendly.Teachers
remarked that these changes were lasting. That's the way to do it! Paula My
name is Lee Irving and I am 32 years old, I currently reside in Longbenton but
I was brought up in Newcastle's West End (living there for 22 years). The West
End of Newcastle (Elswick in particular) is home to a large Asian community and
the house I lived in was about 100 metres away from the Malvern Street mosque
so integration with Asians was an every day occurrence and obviously as I grew
up the subject of racism was never far away. All my life I have heard stories
on the television, the radio and read in the newspapers about the racism towards
Asians and the degrading treatment received in everyday life in Newcastle, but
from my experience it hasn't been racism all one way.
When I was 9 years
old, I was playing on some waste ground with a friend when we were set upon by
two Asian women. We were dragged into a disused building where we were locked
in a blacked out room for approx 10 minutes after which we were dragged into an
upstairs office (being kicked and punched all the way). An Asian business
man... was angrily accusing us of breaking windows around the back of the premises,
it got to the point where he was threatening us with severe beatings if we didn't
own up, of course being 9 years old my friend and I were so frightened we were
hysterical and at this point the man must have realised the situation he was in
and let us go. When I got home I was in total shock and I had bruises on
my face and body so my mother immediately rang the police, as soon as they came
my friend and I gave a short statement and then went across the road where the
assault took place. The Asian business man came to the door but claimed
he could only speak a little English (even though he knew quite a few swear words
10 minutes before) and claimed that no women were in the building! My mother understandably
went berserk and had to be restrained by the police officer who threatened to
arrest her unless she calmed down. Nothing ever came of the incident, we were
advised by the police officer to forget about the whole thing he said it "wasn't
worth the hassle".
After an incident like this I could have easily
used it as an excuse to become a racist, especially living in an area with the
reputation Elswick had, but over the years I have made some very good friends
who are Pakistani and Indian In most cases I think that the Asians that are willing
to interact are the ones that don't get the problems, I have known Asian families
that weren't willing to interact and who were as racist towards whites as some
whites were towards them.
I have no doubt that racism has and will still
be a factor in many peoples lives and I also think that it will never go away
despite all the education available, but when it is being highlighted on television
by a so-called-celebrity, her final summing up really annoyed me. Newcastle
is not perfect... Large steps have been taken over the last few years, just look
at the football both on the terraces and the pitch. St James Park used to be a
breeding ground for racism and this was evident on the pitch by the obvious lack
of black players, but this has changed dramatically over the last few years and
racist chants, thankfully are a thing of the past.
Comments from Narinder
like "I would never bring my kid up in Newcastle"... can be very damaging
to Newcastle and the North East and doesn't give a true reflection of life here,
PERSONALLY I WOULDN'T WANT TO BRING MY SON UP ANYWHERE ELSE.
I hope that
the race debate doesn't just end on Narinder's report and that you give a chance
to show that Newcastle isn't living in the dark ages and that the people up here
aren't all racists. Lee Irving Jocks, Taffs, Yanks, Poms, Krauts,
Micks, Cannucks, Ruskis, Chinkies, Pakis, Mackems, Smoggies, Geordies. Racist
descriptions or terms of endearment? The people of the North East are famed
for their friendliness and openness and a huge factor in that is the ability to
overcome adversity with a smile and a joke. I have friends from all parts of the
world, embracing all cultures, skin colours and religions and the reason such
friendships develop is because we can ridicule and joke about our differences.
The problem that exists in today's society is that the poison of 'multiculturalism'
has created a fear state; decent, ordinary, hard working folk are scared to embrace
those of different cultures for fear of the PC police... James Houghton As
two educated professionals born and raised in the North East we were extremely
disappointed to see the Inside Out Report featuring Narinder Kaur. It was the
inflammatory generalisations that annoyed us most... Every Friday we enjoy
a take-away from the 'chinkies' but referring to the takeaway is certainly not
a derogatory statement. Merely a statement of fact. I am a redhead and have been
party to every manner of taunts. As my mother stated, ginger people receive far
more abuse than any racial minority but are polls carried out about the North-east
being 'Gingerist'?... We both have many friends from a variety of ethnic
backgrounds who love the North East and the fact that people are honest and thoroughly
free of the ridiculous inhibitions which exist amongst the societies in the South.
I have lived in Coventry and refuse to believe that a ghettoised community
can be seen as integration as Kaur seemed to suggest. Helen Houghton Often
racism is debated in the vein that the British are racist against those from other
cultures. I find it sad that cultures that state they are persecuted by Caucasians
here are just as lacking in charity to those who are not wholly identified with
them.
I was shocked and hurt for a good friend of mine when shopping in
Newcastle to see how shopkeepers in three shops run by Muslims treated her. She
is a respectable educated Hindu woman who took me shopping in the East end of
Newcastle. She wore respectable English dress and spoke to the shopkeepers
in their language but I observed that they made her wait until other Muslim customers
were served and they would not look at her. In one shop I had gone in ahead of
her so I was not apparently with her and I was treated better than her!
Our
whole shopping experience left me feeling uncomfortable and there was a tangible
air of hostility I had not experienced when shopping alone in this area before.
According to her this is not a rare experience for Hindus in shops run by Muslims
in Newcastle.
We went in a shop run by Hindus where both of us were treated
with courtesy and made to feel very welcome yet we were doors away from the other
shops.
It does not take any great intellect to work out where the most
money was spent but maybe some prefer to lose trade rather than treat people with
respect. Dawn
Only very rarely do I become as incensed as
I have been tonight by the attitude of Narinder to her home city... Let
me fill you in on my background - I'm in my late 40s, working class and grew up
in the west end of Newcastle. Where I grew up in Lemington, an Asian family had
a shop. These people were considered a valuable part of our community. Two
of the younger children and attended our local school. I have to say I
cannot recall a single incidence of a racist nature at school, that's not to deny
that there weren't any - not everyone was or is as accepting of 'strangers' as
my parents (to whom I owe my liberal outlook on life ). But I would venture
that real racists are very much in the minority but because of their bigotry,
they tend to be more vociferous. When I started work, at Parsons, in Newcastle
one of our fellow workers was also a Sikh - he was a good friend of mine at work
and has now become a successful businessman, which makes me very happy for him.
But once again I never heard a single racist comment - everyone accepted him as
'one of the lads' (bear in mind we were, all of us, from working class backgrounds). I
was deeply upset by Narinder's attempt to brand the entire population of Newcastle
as racist (brushing aside the lady in the Sari shop, who had never experienced
any racism growing up in Newcastle!). The 'criticism' that the North East
is the whitest region also makes me very angry. T IS NOT OUR FAULT!!! The very
same perceived 'isolation' that prevented us from being awarded the super casino
(and no doubt the city of culture) would also appear to be a barrier to immigrant
families moving to the area. My wife is from Leicester (Narinder claimed
she suffered no racial abuse there ) and I am still impressed by the way the way
the Asian community is integrated into the city, but to suggest that there is
little racism is patently untrue - I (as a resident of the "horribly white"
North East, have listened to the stomach churning racist language of some of the
white population of Leicester. yours fumingly Ian Dickinson
I am appalled and offended by the disgusting report on Inside Out this evening.
I
have never felt so strongly about a programme to write in and complain. However
in our current society, where minority races find it necessary to make critical
comments about an area which has come so far in accepting all races I feel I must
voice my concerns.
Newcastle for better for worse has clearly become a
multicultural area and is home to many different nationalities of asylum seekers.
I have vast experience and qualifications in Immigration and Asylum and have worked
over a long period with genuine people who are pleased to make this area, Newcastle,
their home. As someone who has first hand knowledge I can see both positives and
negatives in both sides of the 'race argument', however I feel that Narinder from
Big Brother is not the ideal person to highlight this.
As she said herself
she left the area at an early age, living in Leicester and London. She has clearly
compared her experiences from 30 years ago with today and picked a fist full of
people from the Asian community to highlight it has not changed. It would be interesting
to see how many people were asked for their comments in the making of this pathetic
documentary.
Of course there is likely to be some abuse physical and verbal
aimed at some Asian families and of course this is abhorrent. However this is
true of the disabled, ginger haired, ugly, fat, too thin, and so on, and we know
that this is not exclusive to Newcastle, or indeed to the UK.
Let's face
it, racism is not a problem confined to Newcastle City walls or the white cliffs
of Dover. In my opinion over the top documentaries such as that or more likely
to drive a bigger stake between communities rather than bring them together in
harmony...
(Narinder) has taken the North East and labelled it in one word
RACIST, generalising our welcoming race; the Geordies. I finish how I began,
disgusted and left feeling upset. Ian Wilson
I am quite disappointed
in tonight's programming involving racism. I think Kaur's representation and views
of Newcastle and Geordies is too personal, and to be honest I find it disturbingly
offensive... Comments like, "You know what? I'd never bring up my
children in Newcastle" and "It begs the question, what is being done
to change these old fashioned attitudes?" are offensive to everyone who lives
in the North East, regardless of race, I bet she wouldn't be saying that if she
still lived here. If she doesn't like Newcastle she can live elsewhere... Let
the Geordies of all colour and religion continue life in our beloved multicultural
Newcastle. A.R I am white, born in UK. I am aged 60 years and
male. I work in sales. I was brought up to have an open mind and to think and
reason out situations. I was not racist for the first 50 years of my life but
have become increasingly so as time progresses.
My pet hate is when I
am talking to people in the ethnic community they are just plain rude. Fine if
the conversation is one on one but as soon as there are two or more then suddenly
people who can speak perfectly good English start speaking a language that I don't
understand, then turn back to speaking perfectly good English.
I was
told it was rude to whisper, yet these people clearly don't want me to hear what
they are saying which I find offensive and carry on a conversation as if I wasn't
there. (applies to the Welsh also). I have only had one experience where this
has not happened and countless where it has.
Am I trying to separate
myself from them or they from me?? Live in segregated areas, ghettos if you like...
dress a clear demarcation from the norm in this country but then they don't want
to show their faces either, just the same reason as Hoodies, I guess. Alan
I watched the show this evening and was impressed at how the show and former
Big Brother housemate Narinder was going to examine and explore the treatment
of ethnic minorities in Newcastle. However, I, as a white Geordie, am extremely
insulted to hear the words. 'I would never bring up my children in Newcastle'
broadcast to the country. The programme was interesting to watch and sad to hear
that racism such as the examples given were still present in schools and the young
community. However, the host seemed to be examining incidents of children but
I highly doubt that Newcastle is the worst place for ethnic minority children
to live. Geordies are known across the country as a kind people - fair enough,we
can be a bit wild - but I have travelled across the country and heard Geordies
referred to as 'salt of the earth' and people 'who would do anything for you'.
Sadly, I believe racism will ALWAYS exist in children and schools, you can be
picked on and bullied at school for having the smallest difference to the rest
of the class. Being of another race makes you just as much a target to children
as your height or hair colour It is the adult population that should be
examined when questioning racism in cities. Narinder neglected to this, and as
a result, she has painted a very modern and changed city as a place of intolerance,
hatred and revulsion because bullying exists in schools; a fact which, let's face
it, can be applied across the country. Again, I really enjoyed the show
but feel that the host has set Newcastle back as a major city of England and,
hopefully not, but the result may be that the British public takes her advice,
and avoids Newcastle as a home, while scaring ethnic minorities into moving away
from Newcastle!! Alex As a Geordie I found Narinder's comments
about Newcastle sickening - racism is EVERYWHERE and no way should the city of
Newcastle be singled out for this I'm surprised at 大象传媒 and at Narinder as a fellow
geordie to be saying this. All Geordies are by no means racist but this
program has singled us out to be I think showing that program was stupid. So does
this mean that the 大象传媒 think Geordies are racist? Yes I agree racism is something
that is high on the agenda in Newcastle but is no different to anywhere else and
it was seriously unfair for Newcastle to be shown as a racist place to be black
and white have been worn on the shirts of are heroes for years.
Show racism
the red card. Fraser ...If we are to address what is clearly an
important issue can we have some research based on something other than selective
anecdotal evidence... W Mason I have to say Narinder Kaur talking
about Newcastle being a racist city, NO it not am a Geordie and am please to say,
I am a Geordie. I went to skool with a few Asian kids and we all got on. And Narinder
says West Moor was not nice growing up in. Well I live in Killingworth which is
up the road from where her family live and I go into her family shop who are really
nice people. When I hear her say Newcastle is a racist city I really don't
like to hear that, Newcastle is one of the best place to live and grown up in
the UK I think. I think there will be a few Geordie people who will not be happy
with wot she said because I am not happy with her saying Newcastle is a racist
city Carley I think it's a damn disgrace how someone from Newcastle
can say that there own city is so racist. Racism is something that affects all
community's from all parts of the UK. Newcastle is a place where all walks of
life are welcome, and I do admit there are parts of Newcastle that maybe racism
does happen, but all communities have that. I also would like to mention
where was all the other white Geordies it just seemed like it was a one sided
discussion. James I don't think that the whole of Newcastle is
racist as Narinder is saying. I think she is generalising the whole population
of the north. Yes, some people are, but allot aren't, she should know about generalising
people... Kjon Henson
I appreciate that everybody has different
views and has experienced different situations but it is totally wrong to label
Newcastle and the North East as a whole, especially as only a few people had been
interviewed. In any part of the world a person visits there will always
be racism to both whites and blacks. Racism in the North East is in the minority
yet we all get tarred with the same brush. Racism is absolutely disgusting and
morally wrong and should not happen anywhere. But labelling Newcastle as racist
is not helping the cause at all. David I'm a white man, and I
settled in Newcastle 3 years ago after moving up from London. Now there's a racist,
hateful and violent city. But Newcastle racist? On the whole, the answer
has to be no. Ignorant to cultural differences? More than likely. Kids learn from
parents. Newcastle is an amazing place. And immigration really is adding
to the colour. Long may it continue. Jeff I'm white and I moved
to Newcastle from the South West 6 years ago.
I have worked here, full
time ever since, and I have always been shocked by the level of racism among the
people I have come to know and work with. The contrast with pretty much the rest
of England, is amazing. I have family up here; my grandparents are essentially
racist and six years of living here has unfortunately soured my once once multicultural
outlook; I laugh at 'nigger' jokes, I would never have done that before. If there
is one thing that has always sickened me about the city I love, it is the disgusting
racism that not only permeates, but sometimes dominates the Geordie social element.
This problem needs to be addressed with the young Geordies right now! Jamie I
grew up in Darlington, Co. Durham. I went to school there and encountered many
racist attacks a young child. My first day at school I was pushed into
one of those prickly bushes by another child, who taunted me with unpleasant names.
That was back in the 60's. Our neighbours were generally pleasant, and
liked our family, but there was odd ones who would shout slogans made up just
for us black kids. "Nigger, Nigger pull the trigger, bang bang, bang! Eany
Meany Miny Mo, Catch the Nigger by the toe, If he squeals let him go, Eany Meany
Miny MO". Today they have adapted the saying to say Tigger. There were so
much more unpleasantries I could recall.
At our infant school we were
the only black family. During senior school their were a few more black children.
What I did know was that only a few of the teachers empathised with us. They would
quote "sticks and stones can break your bones, but names will never hurt
you" as if it was a true fact. All the while I would be thinking, "but
I am hurting"!
Things have changed today. I now have two children
of my own. People don't say out loud how they are feeling, they show their racism
in a much subtler way now. When standing in the school playground, you could see
the mothers clasping their children's hands tightly so they don't come over and
play with the little black girls.
I decided that I had had enough, and
a couple of years ago we moved to a multi-cultured area where people were much
more able to accept us for who we are. Human beings - all part of this one big
HUMAN RACE.
For myself I believe the quote in the Bible that says, "The
man (or woman) that fears God and works righteousness is acceptable to him".
My take on what happened this year in Celebrity BB, is that the three Girls,
Jade, Jo were just voicing what a lot of people in this country feel. Anon |