‘We’re not against people like you’ — the kind of immigrant ‘they’ don’t have a problem with, and how her life might soon change
14 January 2019
Patrycja Kupiec is director of The Young Women’s Movement (YWCA Scotland) charity, a role that involves working with refugees, asylum seekers and women who experience abuse.
She loves Scotland, her adopted home of 12 years but, as a Polish immigrant, is concerned about how her own situation might change as a result of Brexit.
My Migrant Story
Patrycja came to Scotland with £100 in her pocket.
“My mum was a cleaner; my dad was a plumber when he was still working in Poland. My dad moved [to Scotland] when Poland joined the EU, when I was 17.”
I came here with £100 in my pocket
Patrycja’s father then suffered a stroke, so she came to Scotland to care for him. In the years that followed, she earned a PhD and joined the UK’s working population.
Recently she began to notice that, whenever taxi drivers hear her foreign accent, they ask for her views on Brexit.
“99% of the time, I would hear that ‘It’s not about immigrants like yourself, because you are well educated, you have this well-established career, so we are not against people like yourself.’
“But obviously they don’t know that I came here with £100 in my pocket, with my dad being super-ill. I kind of started from nothing.”
Patrycja is worried about access to the NHS and social security in a post-Brexit world, particularly as she is currently pregnant. But of greater concern to her is the potential for her child to face problems because of Polish parents.
“I really hope no one will make her feel unwelcome just because her parents were not born here.”
From 2012: growing up half-Polish in the UK
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