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34. It Takes a Village

When talking about family, we hear that phrase 'it takes a village to raise a child' all the time. Matthew Syed explores what it might look like to truly take it to heart.

In the early 1970s, Al Garthwaite and some friends move in together in Leeds. They鈥檙e about to embark on a big experiment.聽 They鈥檙e living communally, sharing clothes, cooking, and housework.

But that鈥檚 not all. Inspired by that oft repeated phrase, 鈥渋t takes a village to raise a child鈥, they鈥檝e decided to share parenting, helping聽to raise each other's offspring. What follows is an unconventional family but one full of love and care nonetheless.聽

In this episode of Sideways, Matthew Syed explores their story to think about how we might get more of the good stuff out of family. We hear from Al, and her daughter Shelley, about life in their collective house. Marriage and family historian Stephanie Coontz reveals some surprising facts about the history of the nuclear family while the writer Sophie Lewis pushes us to rethink the ways in which we care for one another.

With thanks to contributors Al Garthwaite, Shelley Wild, Sophie Lewis and Stephanie Coontz.

Presenter: Matthew Syed
Producer: Nadia Mehdi
Series Editor: Katherine Godfrey
Sound Design and Mix: Rob Speight
Theme music by Ioana Selaru
A Novel production for 大象传媒 Radio 4

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