Failure Isn't Final
A reflection and prayer to start the day with the Rev Catherine De Souza, senior leader of City Church in Cardiff.
A reflection and prayer to start the day with the Revd Catherine De Souza, Senior Leader of City Church in Cardiff.
Good morning.
Yesterday was Father鈥檚 Day, except for in my house, where we marked Father鈥檚 Day on Saturday. As ministers, Sunday is a busy day for my husband and for me and although we celebrate the day across our three church services, it doesn鈥檛 leave us much time to celebrate together with our young daughters. We鈥檝e learnt through some failed Father鈥檚 Days and Mother鈥檚 Days that trying to squeeze in rushed celebratory meals during the Sunday just doesn鈥檛 work. If we move our day to the Saturday, we can celebrate without rushing.
When failure is used as an opportunity to learn, it can often be a building block to success. In fact, there are many famous failures in history who proved that failure doesn鈥檛 have to be final. Sir James Dyson, who invented the Dyson vacuum cleaner, made 5,126 failed prototypes before he landed on the working product 鈥 his 5,127th attempt! Or inventor Thomas Edison, who famously said 鈥淚 have not failed. I have just found 10,000 ways that won鈥檛 work.鈥
The apostle Peter experienced some significant failures during his life: Following Jesus鈥 arrest, Peter denied even knowing Jesus three times. But after Jesus鈥 death and resurrection, he appeared to his disciples and on one occasion Jesus asked Peter three times, 鈥淒o you love me?鈥, three times Peter replied that he did and three times Jesus told Peter 鈥渇eed my sheep鈥. Three statements of love that cancelled out three denials of Jesus. Three commands to lead and care for the Church that cancelled out three failures.
God, it鈥檚 a wonderful reassurance to know that our failures don鈥檛 have to be final with you. Help us when we stumble and remind us that you are with us in both our mistakes and in our successes. Amen