The secret surrogate
Surrogate mother "Ana" describes what it's like to carry another couple's baby, and then hand that baby over.
鈥淎na鈥 (not her real name) lives in Georgia and is a single mother with two children of her own. She has also given birth to two other children for couples who couldn鈥檛 carry them themselves. In return, she received a payment. In Georgia, commercial surrogacy is legal but it carries a stigma so great that Ana didn鈥檛 even tell members of her own family what she was doing. She spent the final months of her pregnancy almost entirely behind closed doors.
Just a few months ago Ana was carrying a baby for Patrick and Enitan, they鈥檙e from Zimbabwe and Nigeria respectively and live in Canada, around 8,500 km away from Ana, but their connection belies that distance. Throughout the pregnancy Ana, Patrick and Enitan would talk over the internet. They told us, 鈥淚t was beautiful from the first time we talked to her.鈥 Ana would send them photos of her growing belly and then, nine months later, she would deliver them a baby boy.
Presenter: Emily Webb
Producer: Jo Impey
Image by Alice Haworth-Booth for 大象传媒 Woman's Hour
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