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Secrets and Lies: Lives lived in shame

Two people so scared about how society would treat them, they spent years concealing their true identities.

It's Secrets and Lies season on Outlook and we're revisiting some of the most fascinating stories from our archive on the theme. In this episode we hear about secrets borne out of shame.

When Gail Lukasik was growing up in the US, she'd always wondered about her mother's quirky habits. For instance, she always wore a light foundation before she went to bed. Years later Gail would discover that this had been one of her mother's attempts to hide the fact that she was actually multiracial and had 'passed' as white her whole life. Gail wrote a book about her story, White Like Her: My Family's Story of Race and Racial Passing. She spoke to Emily Webb in 2019.

Stanley Underhill is a British priest who鈥攁t 91鈥攃ame out as gay. He spent his whole life facing prejudice because of his sexuality but says that for the first time in his life, he's comfortable in himself. He鈥檚 written a book about his life called Coming out of the Black Country. He spoke to Emily Webb in 2019.

Do you have a fantastic story involving a secret or a lie? We'd love to hear about it. Record a short voice memo or write an e-mail and send it to us at outlook@bbc.com. If your story is about someone you know, just make sure they're ok with you telling us about it.

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44 minutes

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  • Thu 1 Apr 2021 11:06GMT
  • Thu 1 Apr 2021 17:06GMT
  • Fri 2 Apr 2021 02:06GMT

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