So what should we be wearing - or not wearing to the christmas party? Should we be wearing festive red or the little black dress?
Jay Hunt, the stylist from Would Like to Meet tells Jenni what gives out the right and wrong signals at a party and gives advice to Woman's Hour staff, Rachel and Kirsty.
And what should men be wearing? Jay gives her expert advice on what Mil Millington author of Things my Girlfriend and I Have Argued About and former mayoral candidate and conservative minister Steven Norris should be wearing. To view the Woman's Hour video and see more party pictures