Does your toddler sometimes get their words a bit mixed up? It can be tempting to correct them, but they鈥檙e actually being incredibly clever. When they鈥檙e about three or four, most children start speaking in longer sentences. And at this age, they鈥檒l make funny little 鈥檚 only natural. They鈥檙e so keen to speak to you that they鈥檒l use anything in their language toolkit to get the message across!
They鈥檙e not getting it wrong, they鈥檙e cleverly using the words they do know to speak. And when it comes to increasing their language toolkit, there鈥檚 no-one more powerful than you! We know this because researchers analysed 300 hours of speech from three year olds and their mothers. They found that the children鈥檚 questions closely reflected questions they鈥檇 heard from their mums.And that鈥檚 just one example. Researchers also showed just how sensitive children are to the patterns in the language they hear.
Here鈥檚 how - they gave four year olds action-words, not real words like 'jump' or 'catch', but made-up action words, like 鈥榖lib鈥. They then asked the children to add endings to the made-up words, to see if they would turn them in to words like 鈥榖libbing鈥 or 鈥榖libbed鈥. The study found that the children were much better at using endings that occur more frequently in their language than those that occur less frequently. But it just shows that children are very sensitive to patterns in the language they hear, and they learn them without knowing! So, there鈥檚 no need to correct your child or worry that they鈥檙e getting it wrong. Just keep talking to them! They鈥檒l get there in the end!