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Family ( Jiā tíng) has always been very important in Chinese culture.

During the Chinese New Year and Mid-Autumn Festival, Chinese people make every effort to travel home and reunite with their family.

A mother and daughter.

The words for your parents in Mandarin are quite simple:

  • bà ba - father

  • mā ma - mother

  • bà ba mā ma - parents

Sisters and brothers

In Mandarin, there are two options for sister and two for brother, depending on whether they are older or younger than you.

MandarinPinyinEnglish
jiě jieolder sister
mèi meiyounger sister
gē geolder brother
dì diyounger brother

Grandparents

A grandmother and grandson.

In Mandarin, different words are used to describe the grandparents who are your father’s parents and the grandparents who are your mother’s parents.

The same is true for all other relatives too, eg uncles, aunts and cousins.

A grandmother and grandson.
MandarinPinyinEnglish
wài gōng grandfather (mother's father)
wài pógrandmother (mother‘s mother)
yé yegrandfather (father’s father)
nǎi naigrandmother (father’s mother)

Talking about your family

碍ǒ耻’ is the measure word used in Mandarin when talking about the number of members in a family - it literally means 'a mouth'.

To ask about someone’s family in Mandarin, you can say:

Nǐ jiā yǒu jǐ 办ǒ耻 谤é苍? - How many people are there in your family?

To answer in Mandarin, you could say:

Wǒ jiā yǒu 蝉ì 办ǒ耻 谤é苍 - There are four people in my family

You can switch out four ( 蝉ì) for any other number, eg one ( 测ī), three ( 蝉ā苍) etc except for ‘two’.

When you want to say you have two of something in Mandarin, you don’t use è谤 (two).

Instead, you use the Mandarin word 濒颈ǎ苍驳.

An older and a younger brother.

You can also use the phrase Wǒ yǒu (I have) in Mandarin:

  • Wǒ yǒu 测ī gè gē ge - I have one older brother

  • Wǒ yǒu 濒颈ǎ苍驳 gè mèi mei - I have two younger sisters

Did you know?

To introduce a family member, you can use Zhè shì (This is) with the particle ‘ de’ to express possession.

MandarinPinyinEnglish
wǒ demy
nǐ deyour
tā dehis
tā deher

So, to introduce your mother, you would say:

Zhè shì wǒ de mā ma - This is my mother

(Sometimes de is left out when talking about family and friends, so you can also say Zhè shì wǒ mā ma)

Conversation time

A boy smiles and points with a girl who is smiling.

Now you've learnt how to talk about your family in Mandarin, let's put it into a conversation!

(Two people are holding pictures of their families)

Caleb:

Zhè shì wǒ māma. Zhè shì wǒ gēge. Tā jiào Alex. Tā shí suì.

This is my mum. This is my big brother. He’s called Alex. He’s ten.

Zoha:

Wǒ rènshi Alex. Tā shì wǒ jiějie de péngyǒu. Zhè shì wǒ jiějie. Tā jiào Amina.

I know Alex. He is my big sister’s friend. This is my big sister. She’s called Amina.

Caleb:

Amina jǐ suì?

How old is Amina?

Zoha:

Tā shí 测ī suì… Nà shì shéi?

She's eleven… (pointing at Caleb's picture) Who is that?

Caleb:

Nà shì wǒ dìdi. Tā jiào Nathan. Tā hěn kě'ài.

That is my little brother. He is called Nathan. He's very cute.

Take your learning further

Why not practise what you've learnt by reading Little Red Riding Hood in Mandarin.

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