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My Mother got Two Telegrams, One was Bad Enough.

by ritsonvaljos

Contributed by听
ritsonvaljos
People in story:听
Mary Ritson (n茅e Casson), Robert Casson, Joseph Casson, David Casson (Senior), Mary Ellen Casson, John Casson, George Casson, David Casson (Junior), Evelyn Mills (n茅e Casson), Thomas Dowson Ritson 'Tom', Ronald Ritson, Mary Teresa Ritson, Josephine Ritson, Joe Bainbridge, Pat Kelly
Location of story:听
Whitehaven, Scilly Banks, Cumbria, Ryes / Bazenville, Sword Beach, Normandy
Background to story:听
Army
Article ID:听
A3723257
Contributed on:听
27 February 2005

RM Commando Robert Casson from Whitehaven, Cumbria (3rd from right back row). I think this is Robert's Unit, 45 Royal Marine Commandos at Exmouth. He sent the photo home a little before D-Day. Robert died in Normandy and is buried next to brother Joseph at Ryes Cemetery near Bayeux.

Introduction

I have assisted one of my aunts, Mrs Mary Ritson (n茅e Casson) from Whitehaven, Cumbria to submit this article about World War Two. Mary married my father鈥檚 eldest brother Tom Ritson in 1941. She had five brothers who served in the Armed Forces during World War Two. Two brothers, Robert and Joseph Casson were killed within days of each other during the Battle of Normandy. Robert and Joseph are buried in adjacent graves in the Commonwealth War Graves Cemetery at Ryes / Bazenville, Calvados, a short distance to the east of Bayeux.

Mary had another brother, John Casson, who took part in the Normandy landings in June 1944, as was one of her brothers-in-law Ronald Ritson. Mary has never been able to visit Normandy but every year on 6 June remembers the sacrifice of her two brothers, Robert and Joseph with a commemoration in the local newspaper, 鈥楾he Whitehaven News鈥.

I am grateful to Mary and other members of her immediate family for their assistance in agreeing to submit this memory of World War Two. It is Mary鈥檚 own account as she told me on Sunday 27 February 2005. The terms of the 大象传媒 鈥淧eople鈥檚 War鈥 website have been read and understood. This submission is dedicated to the memory of Robert and Joseph Casson, two well-loved sons, brothers and uncles so that they will not be forgotten.

The Casson brothers from Whitehaven

鈥淢y parents were David and Mary Ellen Casson who lived in Whitehaven. They had eleven children, although one died young. That left ten of us children including the six boys. We used to live on Newhouses, Whitehaven. Then we moved to live at Fleswick Avenue, Woodhouse near where buses used to stop. We knew just about everybody on Woodhouse. They were all really good neighbours and they all helped each other.

Five of my brothers went into the Forces in the war. Stanley, who was the youngest, was too young for the war, so he didn鈥檛 go. My other brothers were John, Robert, George, David and Joseph and they all went to the war. I鈥檝e got lots of photographs of them all in the family group and some of them in their uniforms. My sisters and their children had a lot more photographs.

Before the war Robert worked in the Isle of Man. It isn鈥檛 that far away from Whitehaven. I think somebody told him about work over there, I forget who it was for the moment. So, he went across on one of the boats from the harbour. David went over there to the Isle of Man a little bit after that as well. I don鈥檛 know what work they were doing. I was working away from home then as well, down in London.

George was in the army in India during the war and I think David went out there as well. They didn鈥檛 bring them back to fight over here. I think they were there all the time but I don鈥檛 know what they did.

Normandy 1944

Three of my brothers were out in Normandy. Ronald, Tom鈥檚 brother, was over there as well but I don鈥檛 think they met up at all. Robert died on 6 June and Joseph not long after. It wasn鈥檛 until years after, when you gave me a map and some photos, that I learnt Robert had landed on Sword Beach, the same as Ronald. My daughters, Mary Teresa and Josephine have shown me photographs and other information as well.

Robert was in the Royal Marine Commandos and Joseph was in the Durham Light Infantry. I have it written down. I鈥檝e got a photograph of where they are buried that Mary Teresa gave me. John used to drive a truck when he was in Normandy and he told me that he used to drive past Robert鈥檚 grave and he didn鈥檛 know about it. Ronald said the same thing. He must have driven past where they are buried and didn鈥檛 know.

Receiving the Telegrams

My parents received two telegrams almost at the same time I think it was. I was married by then and living at Scilly Banks and I had my eldest three daughters to look after by then. So I don鈥檛 know what it was like when my Mam got the telegrams. I went to see her as soon as I knew but Mam and Dad didn鈥檛 want a lot of talk about them dying. It was really bad. Everyone was upset. My other brothers came back but we鈥檝e always remembered Robert and Joseph. Even now I still remember them.

Getting two telegrams was a big shock to my Mam and Dad, to all of us really. One was bad enough, but two! My Mam never got over it. She never liked talking about it. I don鈥檛 know what she thought about the Germans, it was all really upsetting for her. Even years later she would get really upset by it all.

Remembering Robert and Joseph

After the war, my mother gave some money to the St Mary鈥檚 Catholic Church at Kells for the lamps that hang down. This was in memory of Robert and Joseph. It was something she wanted to do to remember them by. You鈥檒l have seen them hanging down from the ceiling. They hold the candles in the lamps on the altar.

Mam and Dad didn鈥檛 go to Normandy to see Robert and Joseph鈥檚 graves. It was too far and she wasn鈥檛 in that good health and they had no money for trips like that. I鈥檝e never been either, although I was going to go in 1989 I think it was but I wasn鈥檛 too well and wasn鈥檛 up to it.

Other friends and relatives have been over there. You鈥檝e given me quite a bit about Robert and Joseph from when you were over there. My sister Evelyn Mills went with the local Normandy Veterans trip run by Joe Bainbridge on that 1989 trip. I think it was around then anyway. Another chap, Pat Kelly, lives down the road and he told Tom and me about it. I think they laid a wreath on their graves. And of course, Mary Teresa and her husband went to France and she saw their graves as well.

Every year in June we put something in the newspaper, it shows that we remember them. It鈥檚 a long time ago but Robert and Joseph are still two of my dear brothers. You never forget them and you don鈥檛 really get over it. It was a lot worse for my Mam of course. Then as you know, you gave me a photo of the memorial stone at the back of St Begh鈥檚 Church on Coach Road. It has their names on."

Commonwealth War Graves Commission Citations

The Commonwealth War Graves Commission looks after the graves of Robert and Joseph Casson, along with all the other Commonwealth troops who died during the two World Wars. They are buried at Ryes War Cemetery, Bazenville, approximately 8 kilometres (5 miles) east of Bayeux.

There are 652 Commonwealth burials at Ryes War Cemetery, 1 Polish and 326 German Graves. Robert and Joseph lie in adjacent plots although they died three weeks apart. The CWGC citation, commemorating them in perpetuity, that can be found in the register at the cemetery entrance is given below.

Joseph Casson:

'In Memory of
Private JOSEPH CASSON

14674155, 9th Bn., Durham Light Infantry
who died age 18
on 27 June 1944
Son of David and Mary Ellen Casson, of Whitehaven, Cumberland.
Remembered with honour
RYES WAR CEMETERY, BAZENVILLE'

Robert Casson:

'In Memory of
Marine ROBERT CASSON

EX/3236, No. 45 Commando., Royal Marines
who died age 25
on 06 June 1944
Son of David and Mary Ellen Casson, of Whitehaven, Cumberland.
Remembered with honour
RYES WAR CEMETERY, BAZENVILLE'

Conclusion

Robert and Joseph Casson were two young men who died during World War Two. They were called up to the Armed Forces, left home, went overseas and never came back. After the battles were over, Robert and Joseph were laid to rest side by side in a French cemetery.

Mary, along with other relatives and friends have never forgotten Robert and Joseph. They were but two victims of a World War in which millions died, each one of them well-loved by others. I wish to thank Mary for sharing the memory of her two brothers who paid the ultimate sacrifice and now lie next to each other in France. They should always be remembered.

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Message 1 - R Casson

Posted on: 01 March 2005 by sunnydigger

Thanks for the story of Royal Marine Commando.
The photo of Robert is a standed recruit squad photo taken at the end of the squads basic training at Lympstone Devon early in the 40s, all are wearing forage caps which was discontinued as a issue late Dec 1943.
If the photo had been taken in 1944 just before D-Day the squad would have been wearing green berets.
George

Message 2 - R Casson

Posted on: 01 March 2005 by ritsonvaljos

Hello sunnydigger,

Thanks for the information. What you say is really interesting. I will let my aunt and other relatives know.

This is my aunt's photo. I only saw it for the first time a couple of days ago, just before I scanned it and posted the story. Unfortunately there is nothing written on the back to give a date or location, other than 'Exmouth'. I only know which one Robert is because of my aunt and another relative. As you say it must have been taken before the end of 1943 possibly it was only sent home then, or possibly even early in 1944.

My aunt only seems to have this one photo of Robert in uniform. There are other photos from before the war and better photos of the other brothers who survived the war.

As yet, I've never traced a photo of Robert's brother Joseph in uniform. He also died in Normandy. In his case any photo in uniform would have to have been taken in 1943 or 1944 because he was only 18. From what I understand Joseph had only been called up about a year before he died. Robert was older and so the photo could well be from earlier in the war. earler

Message 3 - R Casson

Posted on: 03 March 2005 by sunnydigger

Hi.
I am sorry I can not help you with any details of Robert service with the 45 Commando, all I know that it was formed at Burley Hampshire August 1943. But you can write to the Royal marines Magazine, the Globe & Laurel, it has a Can you Help column you could put in it a request asking for former members of 45Cdo 1943-45 if they Robert.
The e-mail address is
secretary.royalsmag@btconnect.com
letter addressis Globe & Laurel H.M.S. Excellent Whale Island Porsmouth Hants PO2 SER.
tel 023 9254 1305 or 0239254 7209
fax 023 92547212.
If you like with your permission I can post your a request on the Royal Marines sites
george

Message 4 - R Casson

Posted on: 03 March 2005 by ritsonvaljos

Hello sunnydigger (George)

Thanks again for the information. It is very kind of you what you have provided so far & your help is gratefully accepted. I have already passed on your first message to my other relatives & they are delighted with it.

As time goes on there are fewer people who knew Robert & Joseph. You can probably deduce from my aunt's story they have always been remembered & their memory honoured at commemorative services etc.

It was obviously difficult for close relatives to talk much about them because of the emotional upset involved. So, there hasn't been a lot of information passed down about them as perhaps there could have been. This is probably one of the last the opportunities to try & remember something about those who were victims in the war, such as Robert & Joseph.

Although I've researched about WW2 it's mostly been from a French perspective. I have interviewed some Normandy Veterans & read some military memoirs, but I really appreciate your help as to find military information.

Thank you very much!

Message 5 - R Casson

Posted on: 08 March 2005 by sunnydigger

Hi again.
I have placed a request on two Royal Marines web site鈥檚 asking if there is anyone that knew Robert, either before or after Robert joined the 45 Commando to get in touch with me,
Let鈥檚 hope we will have luck with the request
George

Message 6 - R Casson

Posted on: 10 March 2005 by ritsonvaljos

Thanks very much for your help. I've passed the information on.

My aunt thinks there may be relatives with better photos & possibly other written details. A little bit more information may help.

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