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Independently Dependent

The actress Felicity Finch explores the independence one develops as a single person and how this is affected when starting a relationship in later life.

Living alone, as a mature person, can result in creating an almost invisible protective guard and an apparent lack of any need to trust or be dependent on others. Then the promise of starting a new relationship throws into question all sorts of assumptions and expectations about oneself and about the other.

The actress Felicity Finch reflects on the idea of how to be independently dependent, with reference to the relationship of John Bayley and Iris Murdoch and the composer Johannes Brahms' life-long devotion to Clara Schumann, his musical mentor's concert-pianist wife.

Produced by Alan Hall.
A Falling Tree production for 大象传媒 Radio 4

Today's programme was presented by Felicity Finch
The readers were Tara Hugo and Steven Crossley
The interviewee was Marianne Ihlen

Readings:

Title: A Marriage
Author: Michael Blumenthal
Synopsis: Poem exmploring how a couple can find their way of living together

Title: A Personal Touch
Author: Simon Armitage
Synopsis: A couple's search for 'space'

Title: Listen
Author: Alice Walker
Synopsis: An exploration of interdependence

Title: Stag's Leap
Author: Sharon Olds
Synopsis: Exploring a complex admiration for the escapes of others

Title: Fair Play
Author: Tove Jansson
Synopsis: Two partners who work and live side by side explore independent dependence

Title: Iris
Author: John Bayley
Synopsis: Exploring how "the closeness of apartness" became the "closeness of closeness"

Music

Title: Romance
Composer: Amy Beach
Performer: David Halen
Label: AAM Records
Album: Salut d'Amour: Romantic Works for Violin and Piano

Title: Living Through It All
Performer: Stanley Turrentine and Shirley Scott
Label: Blue Note
Album: Common Touch

Title: No Fear of Falling
Performer: I am Kloot
Label: Virgin
Album: Natural History

Title: The Kiss
Performer: Judee Sill
Label: Water Music Records
Album: Heart Food

Title: So Long Marianne
Performer: Leonard Cohen
Label: Sundazed
Album: Songs of Leonard Cohen

Title: Love Will Tear Us Apart
Performer: Susanna and the Magical Orchestra
Label: Magnetic
Album: Ram Caf茅 Lounge and Chillout, Vol. 2

Title: Opus 119, No. 1
Composer: Johannes Brahms
Performer: Radu Lupu
Label: Decca
Album: Brahms: 2 Rhapsodies, Op. 79/Klavierstucke, Opp. 117 - 119.

30 minutes

Last on

Sun 20 Jul 2014 23:30

Music Played

  • A Marriage by Michael Blumenthal

    Poem exmploring how a couple can find their way of living together

  • A Personal Touch by Simon Armitage

    A couple聮s search for 聭space聮

  • Listen by Alice Walker

    An exploration of interdependence

  • Stag's Leap by Sharon Olds

    Exploring a complex admiration for the escapes of others

  • Fair Play by Tove Jansson

    Two partners who work and live side by side explore independent dependence

  • Iris by John Bayley

    Exploring how 聯the closeness of apartness聰 became the 聯closeness of closeness聰

  • Amy Beach

    Romance

    Performer: David Halen.
    • Salut d'Amour: Romantic Works for Violin and Piano.
    • AAM Records.
  • Stanley Turrentine and Shirley Scott

    Living Through It All

    • Common Touch.
    • Blue Note.
  • I Am Kloot

    No Fear of Falling

    • Natural History.
    • Virgin.
  • Judee Sill

    The Kiss

    • Heart Food.
    • Water Music Records.
  • Leonard Cohen

    So Long Marianne

    • Songs of Leonard Cohen.
    • Sundazed.
  • Susanna and the Magical Orchestra

    Love Will Tear Us Apart

    • Ram Caf茅 Lounge and Chillout, Vol. 2.
    • Magnetic.
  • Johannes Brahms

    Opus 119, No. 1

    Performer: Radu Lupu.
    • Brahms: 2 Rhapsodies, Op. 79/Klavierstucke, Opp. 117 - 119.
    • Decca.

Broadcasts

  • Sun 20 Jul 2014 06:05
  • Sun 20 Jul 2014 23:30